If your website comes up when you search for your domain, it is listed. You can do a site:
www.domain.com search to se how many pages on your website Google knows about.
I tried to search for the headline of your index page, and you come up in position 13 when i checked.
Ranking in google consists of several strategies. One is that there should to be less competition for the keywords you are planning to rank for.
As Andrew said, there are other forums that are more related to these types of issues.